We are in the midst of planning our wedding for next October. For some of you who have gone through this, you know the never-ending decision making about patterns, linens, guests and food, etc. I am beginning to feel a little overwhelmed. I would love to hear from couples who have wedding strategies or suggestions on how to stomach the whole thing a little bit better. I want this time to be really fun and exciting for Santi and I, and not just about what color napkins to use during cocktail hour!!